<Eyeroll> So sick of parenting advice that promises horrible results if you don't follow it exactly. Combine that with completely opposite advice--each with their own dire warnings--and I just want to pull my hair out!
I'm all for the sleep method that lets everyone get the best sleep possible--at the current moment. And sometimes that means scooting over to let me son cuddle with me. And sometimes that's kicking my daughter out of bed because she keeps sticking her feet in my back.
Parenting is already too hard without people telling you that some small decision now will destroy your children forever.